et tu Brute'

  I know someone- maybe its me- who doesn't know how to appreciate her friends.  Friends are human and make mistakes. OK. They apologize and you move on generally.  But sometimes an evil meany gets hold of a person and that person wants to punish a friend for their sin. Continuously. And in public.  And its worse if the sinner happens to work with that person. They can't avoid them easily and may sometimes be placed on projects together. Nice. Play nice. Sure.
 Well, having witnessed, first hand this kind of emotional waterboarding; I have come to the conclusion that life is just too short to torture the people you love and it is also too short to surround yourself with people who are petty enough from the beginning to become sabatours as described above.  So Buh- Bye.